Connection before appearance
What if you could get to know someone before you saw what they looked like?
Odasiti is that experiment.
How Odasiti works, in 20 seconds
No photos. No swipes.
- Compatibility games
Start by getting to know each other through compatibility questions.
- Text
Then move into direct conversation.
- Voice notes
Hear each other without the pressure of a live conversation.
- Live call
Talk in real time when you're both ready.
- The Reveal
If you both want to meet, you meet in person. That is the first time you see each other.
Read more about The Reveal.
Why no photos?
Because a photo can make the decision before a conversation gets a chance. Odasiti changes the order, just long enough to see what else might happen first.
What am I signing up for?
The first 1,000 in the United States
We're looking for 1,000 people in the United States willing to try connection before appearance. Together, you'll form the founding group for the Odasiti experiment in the United States.
A place on the waitlist. That's it.
The Odasiti app is already built and preparing for release. Joining is free. There is no payment, no photo required and no commitment to a date. We'll email you when your access is ready.
Designed differently on purpose
No public photos or videos
Appearance is not part of discovery. You meet the person before the picture.
You decide whether to continue
You decide whether to keep moving forward. Each part of the journey opens as the connection progresses.
Identity before direct connection
Identity verification is required before the first direct text exchange.
Meeting safety is built in
When you both choose to meet, the platform supports approved public locations, an emergency-contact check-in, and consent controls on the way there.
Read more about The Reveal, in Safety FAQs, Support, and the safety briefing.
Ideas behind Odasiti
We're not just building another dating app. We're questioning some of the assumptions dating apps are built on.
Be early
A thank you for joining early
Join the United States' Odasiti community before launch. Early members receive 25% off their first 12 months and unlock Founding Member recognition.
25% off your first year
Founding Members receive 25% off their first 12 months of Nurture or Commit when their country opens.
Founding Member recognition
Be part of the group that helped the United States get started and carry your Founding Member status inside Odasiti.
Help build the community
Share Odasiti with people you know. Verified referrals can improve your position in the queue and help grow the founding community in the United States.
Would you try it?
Join the first 1,000 in the United States and help us find out what happens when connection comes before appearance.
Join the first 1,000